Yadda duk ya fara: Asalin ranar soyayya ta St

(eTN) – Domin gano asalin ranar masoya za mu mayar da hannun agogo baya zuwa daular Roma inda a asali ranar 14 ga watan Fabrairu ta kasance ranar hutu don girmama Juno Sarauniyar alloli da alloli na Rum da kuma baiwar Allah mata da aure.

Sarkin sarakuna Claudius II (268 - 270), wanda kuma aka sani da Claudius the Cruel, yana sha'awar fara yaƙe-yaƙe masu zubar da jini da rashin jin daɗi waɗanda ya buƙaci maza da yawa. Yunkurin daukar ma'aikata yaki ne da bai yi nasara ba ga mutanen da suke so su zauna tare da iyalansu da 'yan uwansu. Don samun su zuwa "mutum sama" ya soke duk wani alkawari da aure.

Limamin Rum, Saint Valentine, ya ci gaba da auren ma'aurata a asirce wanda ya saba wa Sarkin sarakuna. Lokacin da Claudius ya gano, an kama Valentine, an kai shi kurkuku kuma an hukunta shi. An shirya yi masa dukan tsiya da kulake, sannan a yanke masa kai a ranar 14 ga Fabrairu.

A lokacin da yake zaman gidan yari, St.Valentine ya yi ƙoƙari ya kasance cikin fara'a, kuma matasan da ya aura sun zo su ziyarce shi a kurkuku, suna ba shi furanni da rubutu.

Daya daga cikin wadanda suka ziyarce shi ita ce diyar mai gadin gidan yarin da aka ba ta damar ziyartar Valentine a dakinsa. A zaune tana tattaunawa na tsawon sa’o’i, wannan budurwa ta karfafa wa St. Valentine kwarin gwiwar ci gaba da yin aure a boye.

A ranar da aka shirya fille kansa, ya bar wa abokin nasa takarda yana godiya ga abokantaka da amincinta, kuma an sanya wa hannu, “Love from your Valentine.” Ranar ta kasance 14 ga Fabrairu, 269 AD.

Yanzu a kowace shekara a irin wannan rana, mutane suna tunawa da musayar sakonnin soyayya a ranar soyayya; Ana tunawa da Sarkin sarakuna Claudius kamar yadda ya yi ƙoƙari ya tsaya a hanyar ƙauna.

Ƙwararriyar Ƙa'idar Soyayya ta Duniya:
A Amurka, aure babban kasuwanci ne. Ana gudanar da bukukuwa kusan 6,200 a kowace rana don jimlar miliyan 2.3 a shekara. Daga cikin wannan jimlar, an yi aure 123,300 a Nevada a lokacin 2002.

Matsakaicin shekarun auren farko ga mata shine shekaru 25.3 yayin da ni ke shekara 26.9.

Jihar da ke da mafi girman adadin aure a Amurka ita ce Idaho mai kashi 60 cikin dari; New York tana da mafi ƙasƙanci a kashi 50 cikin ɗari

A Tsakiyar Tsakiyar Zamani, matasa maza da mata sun zana sunaye daga wani kwano don ganin ko wanene za su kasance masu daraja. Za su sa waɗannan sunaye a hannun hannayensu har tsawon mako guda. Sanya zuciyar ku a hannun rigar ku yanzu yana nufin cewa yana da sauƙi ga sauran mutane su san yadda kuke ji.

A Wales ana sassaƙa cokali na soyayya na katako kuma ana ba da su kyauta a ranar 14 ga Fabrairu. An ƙawata cokali da zukata, maɓalli da ramukan maɓalli ma'ana "buɗe zuciyarka."

A wasu ƙasashe, idan budurwa ta sami kyautar tufafi daga saurayi - kuma ta ajiye kyautar, yana nufin za ta aure shi.

Aure, soyayya da soyayya sun ci gaba da zama sananne - duk da yake-yake da koma bayan tattalin arziki. Lokacin da ainihin abin ba a samu ba, masu neman soyayya sun juya zuwa wallafe-wallafen soyayya, kuma almarar soyayya ta samar da dala biliyan 1.37 a tallace-tallace a 20006.

Almarar soyayya ta wuce kowane nau'in kasuwa n 2006, ban da addini/wahayi

Kashi 50 cikin 2002 na duk masu karatun soyayya mata ne kuma daya ne kawai a cikin maza XNUMX ya karanta littafin soyayya a shekarar XNUMX.

Ko da yake soyayya ta sa duniya ta zagaya, wani binciken da Pew Internet and American Life Project Online Dating Survey (2005), ya yi, ya gano cewa yawancin matasa a Amurka “ba sa bayyana kansu a matsayin masu neman abokan zama na soyayya.”

Yawancin manya na Amurka (kashi 56 ko miliyan 113) ba sa cikin kasuwar soyayya (suna aure ko kuma suna rayuwa kamar aure); duk da haka, yawan masu neman soyayya har yanzu suna da yawa.

Kashi 43 na manya (miliyan 87) sun ce ba su da aure. A cikin dukkan wadanda basu yi aure ba, kashi 16 ne kawai suka ce a halin yanzu suna neman abokiyar soyayya. Wannan ya kai kashi 7 cikin ɗari na yawan manya. Wasu kashi 55 na marasa aure sun bayar da rahoton cewa ba su da sha'awar neman abokin aure; wannan lamari ne musamman ga mata, ga wadanda suka yi takaba ko aka sake su, da kuma wadanda suka manyanta.

Kar a Rangwame Ma'aurata
Menene duk wannan ke nufi ga damar kasuwanci? Wurare, otal-otal, gidajen abinci, da abubuwan jan hankali dole ne su gane cewa haɗin gwiwa, aure da hutun amarci suna da mahimmanci kuma manyan kasuwanni - duk da haka, mayar da hankali ga ma'aurata kawai da dangi yana kawar da babban kaso na kasuwa.

Har yanzu ana bikin ranar soyayya – amma wani lokacin “mahimmancin sauran” ba matar aure ba ne, ko aura. Amma, kamar yadda Saint Valentine ya gano - ya fi jin daɗi tare da "abokiyar aboki."