Sabbin Bayanai Akan Matsayin Tafiya a Ginin Haɗin

Ga da yawa daga cikin mu, lokutan da suka fi so a rayuwa ba su da alaƙa da wurare, abubuwan da suka faru, ko ayyuka, amma a maimakon haka, game da mutane ne—waɗanda muka gina a cikin rayuwarmu tuni da kuma wasu waɗanda aka kawo mana hanya ta hanyar kwatsam da gamuwa da sa'a. . Hakazalika, idan ana batun motsi a duniyarmu, sau da yawa shi ne abubuwan tunawa da waɗanda muke haɗuwa da su a cikin waɗannan tafiye-tafiye da ke daɗe tare da mu fiye da lokaci da kuma nesa.

Tafiyar Fitowa ta yi imanin wannan ɗaya ne daga cikin kyaututtukan tafiye-tafiye na gaskiya da yawa: damar samun haɗin kai na ɗan adam. Kuma bisa binciken da suka yi a baya-bayan nan game da Amurkawa 2,000 da suka yi balaguro zuwa kasashen waje, ya bayyana cewa bayanan sun tabbatar da cewa hutun kasa da kasa na iya taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen kaddamarwa da kulla alaka iri-iri (hakika, daya cikin biyar masu amsa sun yi aure saboda safara!).

BAYANI YAYI MAGANA DON KANSA: TAFIYA = HADIN KAI

Bisa ga binciken (wanda aka gudanar ta hanyar OnePoll), kashi saba'in da bakwai cikin dari na jama'ar Amirka da aka yi tambaya sun yi abota ta rayuwa a lokacin tafiya, yayin da 23% suka sadu da mata a kan tafiya, kashi daya bisa uku (33%) sun ba da rahoton "soyayyar hutu," kuma kashi ɗaya cikin huɗu (25%) a halin yanzu suna da'awar babban abokin da suka ci karo da su akan hanya. Wasu ma ba sa bukatar zuwa inda suke don neman soyayya—uku cikin 10 sun yi soyayya da wani da suka hadu da su a cikin jirgi.

Yayin da mafi yawan masu amsa sun yi imanin tafiya na iya ƙarfafa haɗin gwiwar da ke akwai (71%), kuma abokin tafiya mai kyau zai iya yin ko karya tafiya (69%) - watakila yana ƙarfafa su su zaɓi tafiya tare da abokai da dangi - 49% kuma sun ba da rahoton. Bayan sun ɗauki balaguron solo na “canza rayuwa” a baya (tare da lura 20% suna samun sauƙin saduwa da mutane lokacin da suke balaguron balaguro da 71% raba cewa sun haɗu da wani a balaguro wanda ya ba su sabon hangen nesa. ko kuma tun daga lokacin ya canza rayuwarsu).

"Me ya sa ba za a manta da tafiya ba?" ya tambayi Robin Brooks, Daraktan Kasuwanci a EX Travels. “Yawan da ba zato ba tsammani daga mutanen gida lokacin da kuka yi tafiya mai nisa saboda kuna son sanin su da al'adunsu. Kuma tatsuniyoyi na iyali, tarihi, da mafarkai waɗanda baƙon-sabo-sabo-sabo-abokai suka gano akan cin abinci da aka raba-sau da yawa waɗannan lokuttan ne ke haɗa abubuwan tunawa masu ɗorewa, ko muna gina 'don yanzu' ko sabon dangantaka ta har abada ko kuma. shuka tsaba na fahimtar al'adu iri-iri da za su yi tasiri kan ra'ayinmu na duniya na shekaru masu zuwa."

ME YAFI AIKI?

Sakamakon bincike ya nuna a sarari cewa babu “daidai” hanyar tafiya. Amma kuma a bayyane yake tafiya na iya zama babbar hanya don faɗaɗa zamantakewar mutum. Don haka, menene hanya mafi kyau ga waɗanda ke shirye don yin zamantakewa?

Shawarwari da yawa sun bayyana a saman jerin binciken: shiga cikin ayyuka daban-daban (31% suna jayayya cewa wannan dabarun yana aiki); bi ta hanyar shiga cikin yawon shakatawa na rukuni ko abubuwan otal (an ɗaure a 28%); shiga cikin wasanni, abubuwan sha'awa masu aiki, da sauran ayyukan jiki (27%); ko ma kawai a mashaya ko gidan abinci (26% sun ce wannan ya haifar da sabon abota).

"A cikin kwarewarmu," Brooks ya ci gaba da cewa, "lokaci ne na kud-da-kud a lokacin da al'ummarmu ta yau da kullun ke karkata zuwa cikin musayar murmushi, dariya, da tattaunawa ta yau da kullun (tare da ko ba tare da karimcin hannu ko Google Translate!) waɗanda ke ba da zurfin gaske, launi, da hangen nesa ga duk abin da muke gani da kwarewa yayin da muke kan hanya. Don haka, yana da mahimmanci a shiga cikin ayyukan da ke ba mutum damar saduwa da sababbin mutane yayin tafiya.

Musamman ma, masu ba da amsa sun yarda da wani yanki na sabbin alaƙar balaguro na iya haɓakawa a ƙarshe zuwa "abokan sada zumunta" ko "abotancin hutu-kawai" bayan tafiya ta ƙare. Duk da haka, mafi yawancin ba sa ganin wannan "ƙasa" a matsayin mara kyau. Maimakon haka, 79% masu yawa sun yi imani da sababbin abokai na balaguro suna inganta abubuwan da suka faru (ko da sun rasa dangantaka bayan haka) kuma suna sake yin la'akari da samun sababbin abokantaka hudu da 12 sababbin magoya bayan kafofin watsa labarun a kan tafiye-tafiyen da suka gabata. Bugu da ƙari, akwai yuwuwar haƙiƙanin yuwuwar dangantaka ta rayuwa za ta kasance cikin wannan haɗin gwiwa, tare da ba da rahoton abokantaka na 77% na ci gaba da kyau bayan dawowar su gida.

MENENE BANBANCI IDAN MUN TAFI TAFIYA?

Idan kafa sabon abota ko soyayya yana da girma akan jerin abubuwan da mutum zai yi, shaida ta nuna yana iya zama lokacin fara shirin tafiya. Amma me ya sa?

Brooks ya lura, "Ƙananan tafiye-tafiyen rukuni yana ba mu damar kawo sabon salo na kanmu zuwa 'tebur na hutu,' barin damuwarmu ta yau da kullun yayin da muke sake haɗawa da haɓaka sassan kanmu waɗanda wataƙila sun ɓace a cikin inuwar. alhakinmu na yau da kullun a gida - duk ko mun riga mun riga mun kafa abokan tafiya a cikin aljihunmu na baya ko a'a."

Har zuwa wannan, tarin hutu na kasada na Fitowa a hankali zai haɓaka lissafin zamantakewar kowa. Amma salon tafiye-tafiyensu na musamman yana ba da fiye da dandalin saduwa da sababbin abokai. Sun fahimci haduwar da ba a rubuta ba a cikin al'ummomin da suka karbi bakuncin su ne sukan bambanta kwarewar "matafiyi" da na "masu yawon bude ido;" kuma dole ne a ba da fifikon sarari da lokacin haɗin kai a cikin tsarin kowane hanya, ba tare da la’akari da inda aka nufa ba, domin waɗannan lokutan ne za su iya ɗaukar hankalin mutum sosai, yana ba da hangen nesa mai zurfi a cikin al'adun gida, ƙwarewar rayuwa, da sauran ra'ayoyin duniya.

Kashi 69% na masu amsa binciken sun tabbatar da wannan ƙwaƙƙwaran ƙima na abubuwan fifikon matafiya waɗanda suka ce tafiye-tafiye ya sa su zama mutane masu daɗi da ban sha'awa, tare da kashi biyu cikin uku (66%) suna raba cewa sabbin mutanen da suke haɗuwa da tafiye-tafiye suna haifar da kyakkyawar ƙwarewar balaguron gaba ɗaya. , kuma 77% lura da tafiye-tafiyensu sun fi lada da nitsewa lokacin da suke da damar yin hulɗa da mutanen gida.

A cewar ƙungiyar a Tafiyar Fitowa, wannan shine ainihin dalilin da yasa ƙananan balaguron balaguron balaguro na iya zama irin wannan faifan ƙaddamarwa mai ban mamaki don sabbin abokantaka na kowane iri. Ta hanyar zabar sauke nauyin shirin tunkarar balaguro zuwa ga gungun kwararrun kasada, matafiya a maimakon haka sun zabi mayar da hankali a kai da 'yantar da kansu, bude zukatansu da jikinsu zuwa sabbin gogewa, da kuma gayyatar sabbin ilimi, tattaunawa, dangantaka, da hanyoyin tunanin duniya cikin wannan sararin da ba a buɗe ba.

MISALIN SAKAMAKO NA BIYU:

WANE alakar MASU AMSA SUKE RUWAITO DAGA tafiye-tafiyen su?

● Sun yi “abokiyar hutu” (waɗanda suka rataye da shi yayin tafiya amma ba su taɓa saduwa da shi ba) — 36%

● Ya kasance da "soyayyar hutu" (soyayyar da ta dade a lokacin hutu kawai) - 33%

● Sun shirya tafiya nan gaba tare da wanda suka hadu da shi yayin tafiya - 31%

● Sun haɗu da wani da suka haɗu da shi yayin tafiya (ba a cikin jirgin ba) - 30%

● Sun haɗu da wani da suka haɗu da su a cikin jirgin sama yayin tafiya - 30%

● Sun zauna tare da wanda suka hadu da shi yayin tafiya - 28%

● Ku sami babban abokin da suka hadu yayin tafiya - 27%

● Suna da babban aboki da suka hadu yayin tafiya - 25%

● Ya kasance yana tsayawa dare ɗaya yayin tafiya - 25%

● Sun auri wanda suka haɗu da shi yayin tafiya - 23%

HANYOYI MAFI KYAU don saduwa da SABABBIN MUTANE DA GIDAN HADATA ALHALIN TAFIYA?

● Shiga cikin ayyuka daban-daban yayin tafiya - 31%

● Yin rangadin rukuni yayin tafiya - 28% (daure)

● Shiga cikin al'amuran otal ( teas na maraice, cocktails, wasan kwaikwayo) - 28% (daura)

● Kasancewa mai ƙwazo (gym, hikes, tennis, keke, kayak, golf, da sauransu) - 27%

● A mashaya ko gidan abinci - 26%

● Yi amfani da kafofin watsa labarun - 25% (daura)

● Ya zauna a otal - 25% (daure)

● A bakin teku - 25%

● Ziyartar gidajen tarihi ko wuraren tarihi - 25%

● Ya tafi yawon shakatawa na rukuni - 24% (daure)

● Ya tafi cikin jirgin ruwa - 24% (daure)

● Kiɗa kai tsaye - 24%

● Darussan dafa abinci ko ɗanɗano giya - 24%

Koyi lingo na gida - 23%

● Yi amfani da app don saduwa da sauran matafiya - 21%

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